Saturday, September 12, 2009

The rights of the wife of her husband

The rights of the wife of her husband

1. To provide for his wife to feed the drink, where to stay well under way. Apostle Saw:

"You feed her when you eat, clothe when you dress, do not hit her face, not bad-and not just leave jelekannya except in the house (not his wife may move elsewhere, then just leave the place" (Ahmad, Abu Daud, Ibn Hiban).

2. Gave him pleasure. Husband is obliged to mix his wife even though only once in every four months. If he is unable to provide adequate services for her.

3. To stay overnight in each of four nights (for the husband who was unable to stay at home every night) and was also a decision at the time of Umar ibn Khatab governance ra

4. Her husband was on the side of her wedding day for a week if a girl, and if three days if his wife a widow. Apostle Saw.: "A girl has the right to seven days and a widow has the right to three days. Then he (the husband of more than one wife) back to the wives of the other ". (HRMuslim)

5. Disunahkan husband to allow his wife to visit his brother (muhrim) are more ill or who died mahrom also visit relatives or relatives, if not incriminate her husband.

6. Wife entitled to a fair share of her husband, if he had more than one wife. Apostle Saw.;

"Whoever has two wives, and he tends to one of them, then on the Day of Resurrection he will come in one interested in his shoulder while falling up or sideways." (HRat-Tirmidhi)

Rights husband over wife

    1. The good wife obeyed.

His wife must obey the things that is not disobedience to God and in goodness. Wife is not obliged to obey her husband in the liver could not do or the things that troubled him. The Word of God (An-Nisa: 34):

"Then if they obey you, do not look for a way to trouble him."

Rasul SAW said: "If I was allowed to order anyone to prostrate to someone then I'll have a wife to her husband's bow." (HRAt-Tirmidhi)

    1. Wife must maintain her husband's property, shall maintain kehormatannta and should not be out of his house except by permission of her husband. The Word of God (An-Nisa: 34): "The women are women who shalihah obey God preserve self again when her husband was not there"
    2. The wife must submit herself to her husband, whenever he wants menggaulinya. Because the mix is the right one. Word of Prophet saw: "If a husband invites his wife's place to sleep, then his wife refused to come to him, so he was angry at him all night, surely she is cursed by the angels up in the morning." (HRMutatafaqun alaih, Bukhari, Muslim).
    3. Wives must travel with her husband if her husband wants.
    4. If a wife want to come along and husband Sunnah fasting at home so he must ask permission prior to her husband.

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