Saturday, September 12, 2009

The cause of household problems

The cause of household problems

1. Religious differences. For example young Muslim woman who married a Muslim open.

2. Moral differences such as the one religion that one often engage in immoral acts.

3. Differences insight too far., For example, the wife of a broader daripadasuaminya insights. Thus will arise a better me and most correct and finally trivialize her husband.

4. The sharp contrast in terms of social tradition (marrying city youth village girl or vice versa).

5. Large difference between the levels looks handsome husband, height, body, and so kecerdesan other.

6. Overlapping responsibilities and duties (wife and husband earn unemployed).

7. Husband or wife undervaluation partner. (Because he was tired working or keeping house tanggga and children) so the lack of harmony in the household building.

8. The sharp contrast (a generous one and the other stingy, and fussy pendiem, seneng read and one seneng sleep).

9. Communication was very poor because of selfish.

10. Any intervention from the outside (in-law, temen, parents)

11. Husband and wife quickly influenced by friends of their spouse.

12. Each other husband and wife do not keep their emotional and sexual.

13. Husband and wife still lived at home with their families or among the brothers who had been married.

14. Temen-temen less respect for the husband's wife one husband and wife.

15. Merasuknya boredom and burnout in the household due to the change tdak and their creativity.

16. Excessive jealousy

17. Husband and wife too much attention to temen-temennya compared to the family.

18. Doubt in his honesty and no strong arguments.

19. The husband threatened to divorce his wife to marry her or another woman.

20. Poverty and the inability to meet the needs of life.

21. Barren or only have only daughters.

22. Separated husband and wife in a long time.

Material factors

1. Change the work that had been established without cause.

2. No opinion (always wasteful in using the property that is not in the way the pleasure of Allah).

3. Weakness and laziness in doing activities (business)

Religious Factors

1. Always committed the sin ..

2. Refused to pay zakat.

3. Neglect of public property.

4. Reluctant to help the poor.

5. Luxury and always immoral.

6. Always make Riba.

7. Buying and selling in the mosque.

8. Often swear.

9. Like cheating.

10. Like cheating.

11. Preoccupation with earthly pleasures of life.

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